Confidence!

Confidence is essential to success.  It’s also essential to enjoying life.  If you don’t have confidence in your ability to do what you want to do, you aren’t going to be Finally Living Unleashed!

A lack of self confidence is one of the most insidious of the misery monsters that keep you from having a great life.  If you don’t have the confidence you want, it may seem like confidence is some kind of magical power that only the lucky get to have.  It may feel like you have to FIND confidence. 

People often talk of BUILDING self confidence.  They seem to believe it’s something that must be constructed painstakingly over time.

The truth is you can CREATE confidence right now!  Today.  You can HAVE confidence. 

How?

By rerouting your inner experience processor.  Here’s what I mean by that:

Self Confidence

Self confidence is the ultimate power.  If you have confidence in you, in everything you do, in the way you think, the way you act, you have what you need to create your world the way you want it to be.  Self confidence is, in that respect, very much like magic.

So let’s get you tapped into the power.  Let’s create that magic. 

To reroute your inner experience processor, you simply need to start shifting the way you look at events in your life.  This is a three step process.

1.  Look at your past and find your achievements.  Pull out, in your mind, (or better yet, on paper), everything you’ve ever successful done.  Don’t leave small stuff out.  Remember everything, from tying your shoes to riding a bike to graduating from high school.  Certainly be sure to note the big stuff.  Start amassing a big list of all you’ve accomplished in your life.

2.  Look at your present and pay attention to how you process what you do.  Are you expecting too much of yourself?  Do you expect perfection?  Are you not allowed to make mistakes?  Do you feel lousy if you don’t know everything?  Start to notice the pressure you put on yourself.  Ask yourself if you’d put that kind of pressure on someone you love?  Why treat yourself that way?

3.  Look into your future and imagine what your life will be like when you have great self confidence.  What can you have?  What can you experience?  When you see the pay off for confidence, you’ll be more committed to shifting your current thoughts and the way you process your memories to be more confident.

These three steps are an excellent way to begin remapping the way you see your world.  Self confidence is not a mysterious substance that only a few have.  It’s simply the result of perceiving your life in a powerful way.  Begin shifting how you process your experiences, and you’ll create confidence.